March 18, 2020

"Women, You're not a rehabilitation center for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix him, change him, parent him, or raise him.

You want a partner, not a project."

I’ve been talking to a lot of women lately who have felt rejected because the men in their lives hav...

March 4, 2020

"Love difficult people. You are one of them". ~ Bob Goff

Some days I find I have much less grace than others. Take today for example. People are gearing up for Easter and Spring break and stores are bound to be packed to the gills with bargain hunters looking for winter...

February 19, 2020

 "My brokenness is a better bridge for people

than my pretend wholeness ever was." ~ Sheila Walsh

I tend to be very transparent about many of the experiences I’ve survived. People often question why I am as open as I am. I don’t understand the question because to me the...

February 5, 2020

"Reminder: You don't have to rebuild a relationship

with everyone you've forgiven. Just because you are at peace,

doesn't mean they're not still toxic."

My husband always teases that I hold a grudge like Native Americans hold onto tomahawks. I’ve said before that I don’...

January 22, 2020

I used to be quite a mess. There were people that watched me grow up who probably thought I was incorrigible and that I would never amount to anything. I’m pleased to say that they were wrong.

I always tried to give other people the benefit of the doubt and think the...

January 8, 2020

Do you ever look back at your life and I wish that you could have a do over? Sometimes I must admit that I do. Things always look different in hindsight because by the time you’ve lived through them, you have more information than you did at the beginning of your journ...

December 25, 2019

I used to be such a wallflower. I seldom spoke my truth and I kept my deepest emotions a secret, sometimes even from myself. I thought that I was protecting myself from being hurt by not sharing my feelings, but all I did was create a prison that I no longer had the ke...

December 11, 2019

This morning as my husband was praying, he asked God for a Red Sea moment. It got me to thinking about what that must’ve been like for Moses and his troops.

Their faith in God had to be greater than their fear of what was behind them. They could actually see their enemi...

November 27, 2019